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| Attachment is an expression of a bond between two people. With the intention to |
| express love, careness and how much you mean to each other. Which can only be |
| pass from a person. Replacing a person with an object can not show love and careness |
| for each other. |
| For example a child hugs a teddy bear can not replace the attachment when |
| the child hugs his or her father or a child place a pillow on his or her body can not show |
| careness for each other. Children gets attachment from holding an adult's hand, sitting on |
| laps, hugs, graping arms, kissing cheeks, carrying each other, watching television next to |
| each other. These actions can pass love, careness to the child and make the attachment |
| even stronger. Children needs attachment from both parents. Don't think that one parent |
| is enough. The love needs to be pass from both parents to the child, so that it is warm and |
| strong. If children receives rejection like for example a child comes to sit on a father's lap |
| while he is reading the newspaper the father then ignores the child and push him away or |
| while a mother is watching television her child comes to sit next to her and ask to hold her |
| hand. The mother then rejects the child's request for holding her hand and then ignores |
| the child. |
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| Some adults have the wrong idea that they can fill up the empty bucket in |
| Children's life by games, comic books,television, toys, dolls instead of te attachment from |
| both parents. Children will not feel the attachment with love, honesty and bond there is. If |
| there is hated although good food, good clothes are given children's empty bucket and not |
| be full. |
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The truth is this warm attachments are not enough for children and adults, A |
| husband and wife get warm attachments when there is a lot of interaction whatever it is |
holding hands, holding a shoulder, a hug or a kiss will be sending love, sweetness,
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| Understanding and care to each other. |
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| Some people say that depression feels like a black |
| curtain of despair coming down over their lives. |
| Many people feel like they have no energy and |
| can't concentrate. Others feel irritable all the time |
| for no apparent reason. The symptoms vary from |
| person to person, but if you feel "down" for more |
| than two weeks, and these feelings you daily life, you |
| may be clinically depressed. Most people who have gone through one episode of |
| depression will, sooner or later, have another one. You may begin to feel some of the |
| symptoms of depression several weeks before you develop a full-blown expisode of |
| depression. Learning to recognize these early triggers or symptoms and working with your |
| doctor or counselor will help to keep the depression from worsening. Most people with |
| depression never seek help, even though the majority will respond to treatment. |
| Treating depression is especially important because it affects you, your |
| family, and your work. Some people with depression try to harm themselves in the |
| mistaken belief that how they are feeling will never change. Depression is a treatable illness. |
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