Naturally, we all have problems, and normally, we respond to asking helps and seeking counseling differently. There are some people who think that "my problem is small, I can solve by myself, why I need to find someone to help me. Depending on others means "I am weak", so, I need to deal with my problem myself". However, there is another group of people who think that "I have problem but I am not the cause of my problem, why I need to receive counseling service. It is better a person who is the cause of the problem to see the counselor, not me" If you are thinking like one of these persons, please do no refuse to choose our service. Surely, it is your personal right. If you are worried that seeking our counselign means you are weak and dependable, we want to tell you that many people who seeked our counseling proved that they were strong and able to stand by themselves. They are seeking the new soloution to solve their problem by themselves. However, sometimes they are limited or lack experience or skills, so they can not deal with their problem alone. They need helps from someone who is skillful, and able to help them. This is the way we share our experience to help each other in our society. Therefore, when you find out that you are having problem and need helps, it does not means that you have no way out, but now you are brave to face the reality and your limitation and gladly accept the helps from others so that you can walk together with them though the problem you are facing. The second case is you do not want to be a part of counseling, because you do not think you are not the cause of the problem, you can use your right to choose or not choose our counseling. In fact, from our experience it is not necessary that the counselee is not always the cause of the problem such as family counseling, it seems that there is one member in the family cause problem but in fact he is not. He does not cause the problem but in fact every one in the family is a part of this problem. Same as yours, although you do not cause the problem (no one want to be accused like this), you are a part of it. Then you would rather open your heart for our counseling service, you will find that you can help stop this problem.

      Some people worried that counseling cannot really hlep them. The reason they thought like this because they thought that counseling was releasing suffering by talking with someone. It was the way to help mentally but was not the way to find the solution for the problem. For some of those who understood the counseling well but they might not have right attitude toward the counseling, they might think that counseling was non-sense, it was the process that people could talk about their pain in their past. If you have any idea like this, we would like to challenge you to find out from us how counselign can help you. It is true that counselign is the process that helps mentally, it allows you to release your suffering, tension and worries, and then after that you will feel good and relaxed. However, it is only the first benefit. Counseling goal is not just making your happy, but also healing your deep wound in your life, changing your emotion to be more stable, changing some of your behaviors that cause problems, and finally helping you deal with your problem. It is really good start if you feel relaxed during your first session, which means you can get the basic benefit from the couseling. However, if you want to find complete solution, you and your counselor need to work together, both you and counselor share your responsibilities. If both you and we are working together, we believe that you will definitely find the right solution for your problem. However, sometimes the process of basic counseling might not bring happiness to the counselee right away, some people who received the counseling service before might experience more hurting when they had to talk about their wound or hurt in the past with the strangers. It was very boring to talk repeatedly about their bad experience in the past. However, we cannot skip this step, but when we asked you tot ell us about your hurt, it was not to make your hurt, the goal is to take out pus from your wound (to heal your wound). Normally, you could feel hurt when you recalled about bad experience but if you can complete the process, you will experience freedom and no more paint or hurt. You will find out that you can solve the problem that you think you can not deal with. If you are confident and patient, and allow yourself to get hurt one more time, then you will experience that counseling is truly useful to reinforce and enable you to solve your problem.